A Veiled Chick’s Outburst 03 ☁ INSULTING OUR INTELLIGENCE


On occasion, I flip through television channels or browse online videos; what is noticeable, and celebrated, is the incessant portrayal of mind-numbing inanity.


The hype currently is to watch unintelligent time-wasting “entertainment”. Be it reality shows about the quotidian everyday lives of insignificant celebrities; gossiping women presenting talk shows; mediocre series with no substance; plotless ambiguous films focussing on creating a labyrinth of enigmas and visual effects; stomach-turning music videos and singers, – one of the reasons for this outburst – 24-hour news draining our little adrenals, and so on. 

Anyone of us with an iota of an intellect would deduce that there is an insidious deterioration of intelligence whilst viewers consume ignorance.


More vexing still, when viewing others imitate, – sometimes ludicrously – and, alas, this brings me to the Arab nations.

Though Dr A.P.J. Abdul Kalam was talking about India, his following words describe some of the Arab nations,

Why are we, as a nation, so obsessed with foreign things? Is it a legacy of our colonial years? We want foreign television sets. We want foreign shirts. We want foreign technology. Why this obsession with everything imported?

Whether it is music videos – named “video clips” in Arab countries – or CD album covers, copying “the West” is the new form of originality.

There is a reticent sense if Arabs (including those in “authority”) were left to their devices, they will never measure up, not forgetting a ravenous need to please “the West” – which may happen at a cost but not even then.

Incidentally, Arab singers who are “copycats” emphasising the importance of inimitability.


Forget the classy likes of Umm Kulthūm, Fayrouz (not my cup of tea though) and Julia Boutros – although her last two albums, Yawman Ma (Some Day) and Milādak (Your Birth/Birthday), were lyrically and grammatically weak and disappointing in comparison to her previous works. Haifa Wahbi and Maya Diab are the way to go, singers who accentuate their physical assets simply because that seems to be their only “talent”.

With the ongoing battle for singers to appear young and sexy, a growing trend amongst Arab celebrities, – who have had a helping hand from cosmetic surgeons – these fake and desperate looking singers, are today’s generation role models (true worldwide).

Music videos depict these starlets sexualising themselves (the very same who speak about the emancipation of women) and womanising stars objectifying women leaving nothing to the imagination. With sexual innuendos that can easily be described as soft porn, inappropriate or frivolous lyrics, a scenario disharmonious with the song and end credits that are equivalent to that of a film, – sometimes in English – all for fame and fortune.

Not to mention male singers who once upon a time were singing meaningful songs with praise-worthy lyrics and composition, who instead opted to follow the herd, degrading themselves with badly-written lyrics, appalling composition, selfie music videos and attire that is declaring their lack of identity or self-worth.

This is what many Arabs enjoy watching and listening to, including children, and parents seem to see nothing wrong with it – some even claim to be “practising” Muslims (though not upholding Al-Islâm).

SUBTLE toxicity

There is now a paradigm shift in priorities that are insidiously toxic in so many ways, but more so, for the heart.

Artificiality, (false) likes, popularity, stardom, superficiality and the unquenching greed for accumulative wealth and attention, appear to be the aspirations for many in today’s narcissistic world. And narcissism it is. With the rise of selfies, self-indulgent videos, and the desire to share everything and anything with little to no value or substance. Just because everyone is doing it becoming the “new norm”, does not make it any less narcissistic.

Pathologically emulating “the West” in all the wrong areas and neglecting the positive and efficacious ones, such as respecting the concept of time (to some degree) and professionalism, is a descent into losing the Arab identity amongst Arab nations.

Embracing other cultures is encouraged and there is no harm in taking ideas or inspirations from them to express ourselves artistically – or otherwise – as long as we make it our own, do so tastefully, do not sully our identity and integrity, and remain respectful without contravening boundaries and other people’s rights.

More importantly, eschewing bad television will dispel the existing cataleptic state of our minds by not watching and listening to just about anything purely for amusement.

Because, in due course, our intellects will suffer detrimentally, along with our listening and speaking skills, attention spans and moralities – and we will only have ourselves to blame.

Bad television, online or otherwise, and I am including the news here, is meaningless stimuli robbing us of our time and energy, which we can use for more meaningful connexions, honing a skill, learning something new and challenging, starting a side hustle for extra earnings, reading a good book or doing creative work.


We can make wise use of our time and energy by shutting off our electronic devices for some time as a daily or weekly healing habit, taking a contemplative walk in nature without distractions (resetting our nervous system and enhancing our immunity), moving our bodies, clearing our heads, and reconnecting with ourselves, others and nature.

We can spend the time to learn correct breathing, strengthening our lungs and diaphragm, and nourishing our cells with the flow of oxygen, reaping all the benefits from this simple and free miracle, bounty and blessing, we sorely overlook and take for granted which aids in boosting brain function (concentration, intelligence, mental clarity) and help in heightening our senses.

We can heal our hearts so we breathe a purposeful life of truth, weeding out the unwanted, and growing in self and character, shaping our identity, resonating coherent energy, relinquishing the need to imitate or adopt ways that are more harmful than good.

I am not against entertainment as I thoroughly enjoy anime, donghua, manga, manhua, manhwa, fictional stories of many themes, and instrumental and orchestral music; but I am selective about them and deliberately dedicate times for them to wind down, reward myself, refocus, and for creative stimulation and imagination as a curious creative. By simply allocating specific times for entertainment, with an aim in mind like relaxation, creative inspiration, mental release, and so on, we can control what we rewire our brains and senses with.

The more we take care of ourselves, the more conscious and selective we will become as to what we watch increasing self-awareness of how we are rewiring the brain and senses.

Every time we click the button to view something, every deed we do and how we act in imitation or due to inspiration, every decision we make and commit to, comes down to one conscious intentional action, CHOICE, and every choice we make either enhances or hinders our intelligence and senses.

April 2013

Incensed Writings

A Veiled Chick’s Outbursts comprise writings of a more personal nature about my experiences or issues that exasperate me be it something I heard, read, watched, witnessed or observed. It is my way of letting off some steam, my incensed breathings.


  1. What is important is to spend time with human beings, to show empathy and achieve knowledge to make the Earth a good place to live on for all of mankind.

  2. I quite agree with your post. I find most programs a waste of time, energy and brain power. It degrades your brain to waste it on such activity. Unfortunately that seems to be what gets more ratings. Sadly a commentary on the degradation of society anymore.


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